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Written by Eva Petulengro
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Friday, 18 July 2008 |
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Hi Eva,
I'm an Aquarius and have been single for a long
time now. I'm starting to get back on the dating scene and have been on
several dates but am really struggling to connect with anyone. I find
dating really hard, particularly first dates as I seem to put on an act
on first dates and can’t seem to let the real me shine through. I
always feel so different to everyone else too. I much prefer
relationships to stem from friendships but relationships can’t always
start this way with a limited pool of male single friends! Have you got
any advice on how an Aquarian can connect to others and make a success
of a first date? I’ve been on dates with a Virgo and Sagittarius so far.
Thanks
Amy
Amy.
You are trying too hard. Putting on an act will get you nowhere. Don't try to impress him, let him impress you. People like talking about themselves so ask him what he likes - music, hobbies and his feelings on various topics, 'his favourite joke'. You can't beat a good laugh; if it's not funny this is were your acting skills will come in handy, draw him out and ask his opinion on various things. This should help you find out if you like him or fancy him.
Eva
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Last Updated ( Monday, 29 September 2008 )
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Written by Eva Petulengro
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Friday, 18 July 2008 |
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Dear Eva
I met up with a old partner and started a relationship
only to find out that he is with someone else. Although i know this is
wrong i am still with this person. My sigh is Cancer 2nd july, his is the
17th December. Help
Janice
Dear Janice.
You have answered your own question. Kick his arse. He is a rat.
Eva
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Last Updated ( Monday, 29 September 2008 )
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Written by Eva Petulengro
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Tuesday, 01 July 2008 |
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Hi Eva,
Love your column - As a transvestite I have been dressing more and more lately for days on end. I have been since 7 years old, but now it is really intense! I am spending days dressed as I want to be, bought new outfits, even started going out for walks. I do not do it for a thrill, I just feel more comfortable, settled and normal (whatever that is!) when I am in my female role, and a nicer person too. I am considering finally telling my friends and moving things forward ( I did tell my parents a few years back - I did not tell them how being female fills my thoughts all the time! I am spending more time as Siobhan and a lot less as my male self as I do not like that side of me, even though he is popular and sociable, the male side is just not me!! Can you shed any light on whether it is time to move forward and face the world as I wish to face it?
Birthdate xx xx xx, place Hyde, Manchester, time 13:05
Thanks
Siobhan
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Darling,
You are who you are. Don't try and be something you're not. Never mind about other peoples opinions, you have let this go on for far too long and its time that you were yourself. There are many many people in your same situation. There are help lines and organisastions but my advice is be yourself and not what other people want you to be.
Eva
Dear Eva,
Thank you for your consider reply. I appreciate the time you took to read my message! I have already contacted other groups and been out and my social circle has grown immensely. You are so right about it going on too long, I am ready to be myself and that is as Siobhan.
It will be difficult but thank you so much.
Sio
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Last Updated ( Monday, 29 September 2008 )
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Written by Eva Petulengro
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Tuesday, 24 June 2008 |
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Dear Eva
Will i loose my home and business?
03/04/1959 Ilford essex. Born 1.00am
Name witheld
Darling
According to your details this isn't the first time
you've been on the 'brink'. In the past something has always saved you at the
last minute. I see one of your problems is that you listen to other people
instead of using your own judgement and intuition. Indications are that you
should turn the corner for the better financially within the next five months but this will take effort and resourcefulness on your part to achieve.
Eva
Don't forget to look into all the sources of help and advice available in the UK. Citizens Advice Bureau may be a good place to start. Advice from these people should prove beneficial!
The Astrology Room Team
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Last Updated ( Tuesday, 24 June 2008 )
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Written by Eva Petulengro
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Tuesday, 24 June 2008 |
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Dear Eva,
My husband (Aquarius) works abroad and we have been trying to arrange for me to visit him there since last November but being delayed due to visa. Can you tell me when I will eventually get there? I am beginning to worry that he doesn't want me there and is making excuses, or am I being paranoid? Ann 11/03/55 Glasgow
Dear Ann,
Aquarians are known for talking but not doing, surely you know that by now by being married to one. Pisceans such as you, however, are do-ers. Why can't you arrange the Visa or have you had doubts? Stop reading the cover and read the instruction manual that is your relationship. I think you're as scared of seeing him as he is you. Don't put off the inevitable, i get the feeling you're talking to everyone but him about your fears and yet he is the only one who can put your mind at rest. Don't dwell on the negative, push this matter through and then you can sort out the crux of the real worries.
Eva
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Last Updated ( Tuesday, 24 June 2008 )
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